Cooking pasta is one of those rituals that easily brings a family together. It’s simple enough for a weeknight dinner yet versatile enough for a celebratory table.
Pasta offers endless flexibility, and that’s what makes it so well loved. A single base ingredient can be transformed into countless meals simply by changing the sauce or adding seasonal vegetables.
Cooking with pasta is also a great way to experiment and teach kids the joy of preparing meals together.
In this article, I want to share the pasta recipes I keep coming back to – the ones that win over my family every single time, chosen not just for their flavor, but for how practical and comforting they are to make.
1. Creamy Alfredo with a Gentle Twist

A comforting Alfredo dish can please almost anyone, but heavy cream can sometimes overwhelm the palate. The secret is to lighten the sauce with a blend of milk and a little broth. To keep it silky, whisk continuously while the sauce thickens, then fold in fresh Parmesan.
Ingredients:
- 400g fettuccine
- 2 tbsp butter
- 2 tbsp flour
- 1 ½ cups milk
- ½ cup chicken broth
- ¾ cup grated Parmesan
- Salt and pepper to taste
Serves: 4
Steps:
- Boil water ─ Bring a large pot of water to a rolling boil. Salt well (it should taste like the sea).
- Start pasta ─ Cook fettuccine until just shy of al dente. Reserve ½ cup pasta water, then drain. While waiting for the pasta water to boil, I often jot ideas into my custom printed notebooks – they’re a lovely way to collect cooking notes and recipes.
- Make a roux ─ In a wide pan, melt butter over medium heat. Whisk in flour for 60–90 seconds until it smells nutty.
- Build the sauce ─ Slowly whisk in milk, then broth, in a thin stream to avoid lumps.
- Thicken gently ─ Simmer on low, whisking, until it lightly coats the back of a spoon. Do not boil.
- Cheese in ─ Off the heat, whisk in Parmesan. Season with salt and pepper.
- Combine ─ Toss pasta in the pan, loosening with a splash of reserved pasta water if needed until silky.
- Serve ─ Finish with a little extra Parmesan.
Avoid this: Letting the sauce bubble hard (can split). Using pre-shredded cheese (starch coating prevents smooth melting).
2. Tomato Basil Penne for Busy Evenings

This dish is a lifesaver when time is short but you want something homemade. Cook penne until al dente, then toss with sautéed garlic, canned plum tomatoes, and fresh basil. A splash of olive oil at the end ties the flavors together.
Ingredients:
- 350g penne
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 can plum tomatoes (400g)
- Fresh basil leaves
- Olive oil, salt, and pepper
Serves: 4
Steps
- Boil and salt water. Cook penne to al dente; reserve ½ cup pasta water.
- Sauté garlic: Warm 2 Tbsp olive oil in a skillet on medium-low. Add garlic; cook 30–45 seconds until fragrant.
- Tomatoes in: Crush tomatoes by hand into the pan (or use a spoon). Simmer 8–10 minutes to thicken.
- Season: Add salt, pepper, and torn basil. Taste for brightness; add a pinch of sugar if the tomatoes are very acidic.
- Marry pasta and sauce: Add penne to the skillet with a splash of pasta water. Toss on medium heat for 1–2 minutes until glossy.
- Finish: Drizzle with good olive oil and more basil.
Avoid this: Browning garlic (turns bitter). Skipping the final minute of tossing, which is where the sauce clings beautifully.
3. Baked Ziti with Layers of Comfort

When feeding a larger group, baked pasta dishes are unmatched. Ziti layered with ricotta, mozzarella, and marinara creates a dish that tastes like home. Bake until the cheese bubbles and the top is slightly golden.
Ingredients:
- 500g ziti pasta
- 2 cups ricotta cheese
- 2 cups marinara sauce
- 1 cup mozzarella, shredded
- Fresh parsley for garnish
Serves: 6–8
Steps
- Heat oven: 190°C. Lightly oil a 23×33 cm baking dish.
- Par-cook ziti: Boil in salted water 2 minutes less than package directions. Drain.
- Mix ricotta: In a bowl, combine ricotta with a pinch of salt and pepper. Optional: add ¼ cup grated Parmesan.
- Layer 1: Spread a thin layer of marinara in the dish. Add half the ziti, half the ricotta in spoonfuls, a third of the mozzarella, and more sauce.
- Layer 2: Repeat with the remaining ziti, ricotta, more marinara, and most of the mozzarella.
- Top: Finish with a final spooning of sauce and remaining mozzarella.
- Bake: 20–25 minutes until bubbly and lightly golden.
- Rest: Let stand 10 minutes. Sprinkle parsley and slice.
Do’s and Don’ts:
- Do undercook the pasta slightly before baking — it will continue cooking in the oven.
- Don’t skip letting it rest for 10 minutes before serving, so the layers set.
4. Pesto Spaghetti with Roasted Vegetables

For a brighter option, pair spaghetti with homemade pesto and roasted seasonal vegetables. Roasting brings out natural sweetness, balancing the herby richness of pesto.
Ingredients:
- 350g spaghetti
- 1 cup pesto (basil, garlic, pine nuts, Parmesan, olive oil)
- 2 cups mixed vegetables (zucchini, bell peppers, cherry tomatoes)
- Olive oil, salt, pepper
Serves: 6–8
Steps
- Heat oven: 190°C. Lightly oil a 23×33 cm baking dish.
- Par-cook ziti: Boil in salted water 2 minutes less than package directions. Drain.
- Mix ricotta: In a bowl, combine ricotta with a pinch of salt and pepper. Optional: add ¼ cup grated Parmesan.
- Layer 1: Spread a thin layer of marinara in the dish. Add half the ziti, half the ricotta in spoonfuls, a third of the mozzarella, and more sauce.
- Layer 2: Repeat with the remaining ziti, ricotta, more marinara, and most of the mozzarella.
- Top: Finish with a final spooning of sauce and remaining mozzarella.
- Bake: 20–25 minutes until bubbly and lightly golden.
- Rest: Let stand 10 minutes. Sprinkle parsley and slice.
Recommendation: Always roast vegetables separately before mixing. Adding them directly to the pan can make them watery, reducing flavor.
Tips for Making Pasta a Shared Experience

Cooking pasta can be more than just getting food on the table. It’s a ritual worth enjoying:
- Invite kids to sprinkle cheese or stir the sauce.
- Try doubling recipes and freezing half for a no-stress dinner later.
- Experiment with homemade noodles ─ messy but fun, and very rewarding.
Avoid rinsing pasta after boiling unless the recipe calls for it (like a cold pasta salad). Starch helps sauces cling better, which makes every bite more flavorful.
Conclusion
Every household has its own traditions, but pasta nights often become a constant. They mark a pause in the week where everyone sits together, sharing comfort food that feels both familiar and fresh. Beyond taste, it’s about creating small rituals that anchor the family – laughter over a messy plate of spaghetti or the quiet joy of passing the baked ziti around the table.
The best pasta recipes aren’t just about technique; they’re about the warmth they bring to the table. Each dish offers something slightly different but equally valuable: nourishment, comfort, and connection. And that’s why pasta continues to hold such a treasured place in family kitchens.